Good Friday 2023: Ideas to share the Revised Common Lectionary Readings with all ages

As many in Australia are traveling this weekend, this is a resource you can take with you, and use as a family, either with or without a service to attend either physically or by Zoom.

Each week I compile a number of resources to help you, your family, or your congregation contemplate the RCL readings. While designed to be used during a Sunday service at church or by Zoom, these readings can also be used during the week to help your family’s faith formation.

My objective is for faith to be a lived experience and for children to learn how to worship, explore the Bible, and pray by participating in Worship with others. The goal here is not for them to learn names or facts, though they may want to do that for themselves, but, rather to find ways of connecting with the text and sharing that with others. The idea is to form a lifelong love of Christ, for the Word of God, and to participate in Worship. Faith is portable, we live it and share it, every day. I hope these simple ideas help your family or congregation form their faith.

FOR CONGREGATIONS:

f you are a small congregation, that suddenly has children in your pews, these can also be used in your services, shared direct from this site, or copied into your order of service. Create an area as close as possible to where the major liturgies of the service occur, for parents/guardians to worship with their children, and fill this area with books and toys in it that will enhance their spiritual experience. (Ie not toys for “keeping them quiet”). You will find some ideas in these posts Spiritual Delights or Toy Box tat! and Make the books appealing.

Suggest that visiting families pack a special backpack, filled with a children’s storybook bible, other books that speak about ideas in today’s readings, and drawing or craft materials that children can use to respond to today’s readings.

For adults and older students, you might like to use a journal with which to record anything that grabs your attention during the service. This could be a special, bound book or you can use your iPad or iPhone. You could write a precis of the message (traditional words or pictures), draw, and keep a record of emotions and hymns that you did or did not like. You could use a template like this free download. Remember, this is for you, you do not have to show anyone what is in it unless you want to, and you feel safe to do so.

The liturgical colours for today are black or Red

If worshipping from home you might like to set up a table or space with a black or Red cloth, a cross, a candle and some things that focus your mind on today’s readings, for example, a nail, a crown or a circle of barbed wire( use the crown if you have young children).

IF worshipping in a Uniting Church In Australia you might like to teach the little ones this way to Acknowledge Country

LISTEN Good Friday The End on the Lent Album by Liturgical Folk

READ: God’s Holy Darkness by Sharai Green and Beckah Selnick

WATCH (start 45 seconds in)

THE LORD’S PRAYER:

You might like to start with the Lord’s Prayer if at home, or say the Lord’s Prayer within a set place if following along in a service.

For a more contemplative version https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NuUo-igXDU&fbclid=IwAR2FasYCU-9mP1PaLQDjweXyhyUnJutt4J28KycjzeUEttWSesipX2jmJxE

Or for a more Intergenerational approach try Number 1 on the Table Settings album by Liturgical Folks

FIRST READING: Isaiah 52:13-53:12

READ: A Wrinkled Heart by Tracie Hoexter

WATCH

SING: Isaiah 53:6 (We all like sheep…) from the Boss of the Cross album by Colin Buchanan (I have included this because not all children, denominations, or families keep a sad tone today, so if this fits your circumstance sing away)

DO: a heart out of paper, draw it by hand or use this template to cut it out, wrinkle it then try to find ways to make it unwrinked.

PSALM 22

Psalm 22: The Crucifixion Psalm

OR SING/LISTEN to Psalm 22 by Liturgical Folk

DRAW: how this Psalm makes you feel? Draw it or show it or find an emoji that shows it

SECOND READINGS: HEBREWS 10:16-25

READ I will Love You Anyway by Mick Inpen

WATCH https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eBTrEDQWPc

A beautiful story of being loved and forgiven. Just like today’s reading

SING: Seeds Family Worship, He is Faithful

PRAY (get a piece of tissue paper or a sponge, cut out a heart shape and drop food dye onto it as you pray for those you find difficult to love or care about.)

OR Hebrews 4:14-16 and 5:7-9

READ: Kitten for a Day by Ezra Jake Keats

WATCH

See Why it was suggested

SING: Totally God Totally Man by Sovereign Grace Music

PRAY

When Jesus was a boy,

He played and grew

and knows

what it is like to be

a child like me

(tell God something about yourself)

Amen

GOSPEL READING: John 18:1-19:42

READ: The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lolyd-Jones and Jago, A dark night in the Garden and The sun stops Shining pp294-309

SING: Is this the King on the Boss of the Cross album by Colin Buchanan

Colouring in There is a free colouring in page on p.20 that is appropriate for today (you do need to submit your email address to receive the download if you haven’t already downloaded the lent edition

MAKE a Gethsemane garden, create your own, using whatever you have ie. lego or bits and pieces or build it in a garden or a pot plant base You could print out these people and use them to retell today’s story.

Blessings

Wendy L.

Please check local guidelines before using items that are not mine especially if you are using this page for congregational use. Please acknowledge this page if you find it useful. Thank you.

I am writing this on Wurundjeri land and wish to pay respect to all Elders, past, present, and emerging.

If you are in Australia and would like to teach your children to Acknowledge Country here is a video that will help, and a great book to help understand, We love Country. Most Uniting Church Congregations will say an Acknowledgement of Country towards the start of the service.

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GOOD FRIDAY 2022

WELCOME: Everyone is welcome here.

While designed to be used during a Sunday service at church or by zoom, these readings can also be used during the week to help you remember and build on what you experienced on Sundays. My objective is for faith to be a lived experience and for children to learn how to worship and explore the Bible and pray by participating in Worship. The goal here is not for them to learn names or facts though they may want to do that for themselves, but rather to find ways of connecting with the text and sharing that with others. The ideal is to form alife long love of Christ and for the Word of God.

GOOD FRIDAY has arrived. The Liturgical colour is BLACK or RED.

If you are worshipping from home you may like to set up a worship area

You can do this by setting up a candle, then add the things that remind YOU of God, a Cross, a Bible that everyone likes to read from, a special object, even something from one of the readings.

If able to worship in the Church buildings pack a special backpack, as well as filling, it with your Covid Safe equipment, add the books or materials required to help your young ones relate to today’s readings.

For adults and older students, you might like to use a journal with which to record anything that grabs your attention during the service. This could be a special, bound book or use your ipad or iphone. You could write a precis of the message (traditional words or pictures), draw, keep a record of emotions and hymns that you did or did not like. You could use a template like this free download. Remember, this is for you, you do not have to show anyone what is in it unless you want to, and you feel safe to do so.

CONGREGATIONAL USE: Parents are the best at sharing their faith with their children. If you are a small congregation where children are a very small, or rare part of your congregational life, please feel free to make these suggestions available to your congregation. I am very happy for you to copy and paste ideas from here into your own Order of Service or for you to supply a link to this page. An acknowledgment though is always appreciated.

LET’S BEGIN:

LISTEN Good Friday The End on Liturgical Folks Album, Lent

For general craft ideas for Good Friday try these ideas from Sun Hats and Wellie Boots

THE LORD’S PRAYER:

You might like to start with the Lord’s Prayer if at home, or say the Lord’s Prayer within a set place if following along in a service.

A more contemplative version https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NuUo-igXDU&fbclid=IwAR2FasYCU-9mP1PaLQDjweXyhyUnJutt4J28KycjzeUEttWSesipX2jmJxE

Or for a more Intergenerational approach try Number 1 on the Table Settings album by Liturgical Folks

ACKNOWLEDGMENT OF COUNTRY

If you are in Australia and attending a Uniting Church in Australia, in many cases an Acknowledgment of Country will be said. You can teach your young ones to do this too.

FIRST READING: Isaiah 52:13-53:12

READ: The Velvetten Bunny by Margery Williams

WATCH

I chose this book as I saw some parallels between the Isaiah reading and the Velveteen Bunny who, learns what he has to do to become human and that it is not easy or pretty. in the same way the suffering servant’s life is not easy or appreciated the true value of it is not seen or appreciated by everyone.

PLAY: Roll out a play mat, or get a lego city project and look at how many people, going around their ordinary lives are doing wonderful things for others, ie the street cleaner, the nurse. How many can you think off.

PRAY

You are faithful God

Help me to listen to you

Amen

PSALM 22

Psalm 22: Don’t leave me!

My God, my God, how could you leave me? (clench your fists)
Just when I needed you most, you are gone! (point your finger from one of the clenched fists)
I am eaten up by pain, (wrap you arms around your body)
my life is pouring down the drain (hang your head)
Around and around rage the forces of hate. (look all around you)
Is this the end? Is this my fate? (point your hands palm upwards)

A shortened version of Rev Purdie’s Psalm 22 Don’t leave me. Actions in Italics by me

DRAW: how this Psalm makes you feel?

How does the second part of the Psalm make yoSECOND READING: Hebre

SECOND READINGS: HEBREWS 10:16-25

READ I will Love You Anyway by Mick Inpen

WATCH https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eBTrEDQWPc

A beautiful story of being loved and forgiven. Just like today’s reading

SING: Seeds Family Worship, He is Faithful

PRAY (get a piece of tissue paper or a sponge, cut out a heart shape and drop food dye onto it as you pray)

OR Hebrews 4:14-16 and 5:7-9

READ: Kitten for a Day by Ezra Jake Keats

WATCH

See Why it was suggested

SING Jesus You are my Hope by Soverign Grace Kids” album To be Like Jesus

PRAY

Jesus was a boy,

He played and grew

and knows

what it is like to be

a child like me

(tell God something about yourself)

Amen

GOSPEL READING: John 18:1-19:42

READ: The Way of the Cross by Andrew McDonough

WATCH

SING He died upon a Cross by Colin Buchanan on his album Practice Being Godly

Colouring -IN free colouring in page or you can purchase an activity book ($Aus 4.95) with so many things to do it will keep everyone occupied.

Blessings

Wendy L.

Please check local guidlines before using items that are not mine especially if you are using this page for congregational use. Please acknowedge this page if you find it useful. Thank you.

I am writing this on Wurundjeri land and wish to pay respect to all Elders, past, present and emerging.

I have qualifications in Education, Theology and Children’s Spirituality, and have worked as a Children and Families Worker in a city church. I use simple and easily found ideas to help you share the Revised Common Lectionary (RCL) readings. This is a ONE STOP SHOP where I have done the sifting for you to find theologically and developmentally appropriate material for your congregation or family, saving you time from sifting through many websites, facebook , pinterest, instagram, and blog posts.