Good Friday 2023: Ideas to share the Revised Common Lectionary Readings with all ages

As many in Australia are traveling this weekend, this is a resource you can take with you, and use as a family, either with or without a service to attend either physically or by Zoom.

Each week I compile a number of resources to help you, your family, or your congregation contemplate the RCL readings. While designed to be used during a Sunday service at church or by Zoom, these readings can also be used during the week to help your family’s faith formation.

My objective is for faith to be a lived experience and for children to learn how to worship, explore the Bible, and pray by participating in Worship with others. The goal here is not for them to learn names or facts, though they may want to do that for themselves, but, rather to find ways of connecting with the text and sharing that with others. The idea is to form a lifelong love of Christ, for the Word of God, and to participate in Worship. Faith is portable, we live it and share it, every day. I hope these simple ideas help your family or congregation form their faith.

FOR CONGREGATIONS:

f you are a small congregation, that suddenly has children in your pews, these can also be used in your services, shared direct from this site, or copied into your order of service. Create an area as close as possible to where the major liturgies of the service occur, for parents/guardians to worship with their children, and fill this area with books and toys in it that will enhance their spiritual experience. (Ie not toys for “keeping them quiet”). You will find some ideas in these posts Spiritual Delights or Toy Box tat! and Make the books appealing.

Suggest that visiting families pack a special backpack, filled with a children’s storybook bible, other books that speak about ideas in today’s readings, and drawing or craft materials that children can use to respond to today’s readings.

For adults and older students, you might like to use a journal with which to record anything that grabs your attention during the service. This could be a special, bound book or you can use your iPad or iPhone. You could write a precis of the message (traditional words or pictures), draw, and keep a record of emotions and hymns that you did or did not like. You could use a template like this free download. Remember, this is for you, you do not have to show anyone what is in it unless you want to, and you feel safe to do so.

The liturgical colours for today are black or Red

If worshipping from home you might like to set up a table or space with a black or Red cloth, a cross, a candle and some things that focus your mind on today’s readings, for example, a nail, a crown or a circle of barbed wire( use the crown if you have young children).

IF worshipping in a Uniting Church In Australia you might like to teach the little ones this way to Acknowledge Country

LISTEN Good Friday The End on the Lent Album by Liturgical Folk

READ: God’s Holy Darkness by Sharai Green and Beckah Selnick

WATCH (start 45 seconds in)

THE LORD’S PRAYER:

You might like to start with the Lord’s Prayer if at home, or say the Lord’s Prayer within a set place if following along in a service.

For a more contemplative version https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NuUo-igXDU&fbclid=IwAR2FasYCU-9mP1PaLQDjweXyhyUnJutt4J28KycjzeUEttWSesipX2jmJxE

Or for a more Intergenerational approach try Number 1 on the Table Settings album by Liturgical Folks

FIRST READING: Isaiah 52:13-53:12

READ: A Wrinkled Heart by Tracie Hoexter

WATCH

SING: Isaiah 53:6 (We all like sheep…) from the Boss of the Cross album by Colin Buchanan (I have included this because not all children, denominations, or families keep a sad tone today, so if this fits your circumstance sing away)

DO: a heart out of paper, draw it by hand or use this template to cut it out, wrinkle it then try to find ways to make it unwrinked.

PSALM 22

Psalm 22: The Crucifixion Psalm

OR SING/LISTEN to Psalm 22 by Liturgical Folk

DRAW: how this Psalm makes you feel? Draw it or show it or find an emoji that shows it

SECOND READINGS: HEBREWS 10:16-25

READ I will Love You Anyway by Mick Inpen

WATCH https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eBTrEDQWPc

A beautiful story of being loved and forgiven. Just like today’s reading

SING: Seeds Family Worship, He is Faithful

PRAY (get a piece of tissue paper or a sponge, cut out a heart shape and drop food dye onto it as you pray for those you find difficult to love or care about.)

OR Hebrews 4:14-16 and 5:7-9

READ: Kitten for a Day by Ezra Jake Keats

WATCH

See Why it was suggested

SING: Totally God Totally Man by Sovereign Grace Music

PRAY

When Jesus was a boy,

He played and grew

and knows

what it is like to be

a child like me

(tell God something about yourself)

Amen

GOSPEL READING: John 18:1-19:42

READ: The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lolyd-Jones and Jago, A dark night in the Garden and The sun stops Shining pp294-309

SING: Is this the King on the Boss of the Cross album by Colin Buchanan

Colouring in There is a free colouring in page on p.20 that is appropriate for today (you do need to submit your email address to receive the download if you haven’t already downloaded the lent edition

MAKE a Gethsemane garden, create your own, using whatever you have ie. lego or bits and pieces or build it in a garden or a pot plant base You could print out these people and use them to retell today’s story.

Blessings

Wendy L.

Please check local guidelines before using items that are not mine especially if you are using this page for congregational use. Please acknowledge this page if you find it useful. Thank you.

I am writing this on Wurundjeri land and wish to pay respect to all Elders, past, present, and emerging.

If you are in Australia and would like to teach your children to Acknowledge Country here is a video that will help, and a great book to help understand, We love Country. Most Uniting Church Congregations will say an Acknowledgement of Country towards the start of the service.

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GOOD FRIDAY 2022

WELCOME: Everyone is welcome here.

While designed to be used during a Sunday service at church or by zoom, these readings can also be used during the week to help you remember and build on what you experienced on Sundays. My objective is for faith to be a lived experience and for children to learn how to worship and explore the Bible and pray by participating in Worship. The goal here is not for them to learn names or facts though they may want to do that for themselves, but rather to find ways of connecting with the text and sharing that with others. The ideal is to form alife long love of Christ and for the Word of God.

GOOD FRIDAY has arrived. The Liturgical colour is BLACK or RED.

If you are worshipping from home you may like to set up a worship area

You can do this by setting up a candle, then add the things that remind YOU of God, a Cross, a Bible that everyone likes to read from, a special object, even something from one of the readings.

If able to worship in the Church buildings pack a special backpack, as well as filling, it with your Covid Safe equipment, add the books or materials required to help your young ones relate to today’s readings.

For adults and older students, you might like to use a journal with which to record anything that grabs your attention during the service. This could be a special, bound book or use your ipad or iphone. You could write a precis of the message (traditional words or pictures), draw, keep a record of emotions and hymns that you did or did not like. You could use a template like this free download. Remember, this is for you, you do not have to show anyone what is in it unless you want to, and you feel safe to do so.

CONGREGATIONAL USE: Parents are the best at sharing their faith with their children. If you are a small congregation where children are a very small, or rare part of your congregational life, please feel free to make these suggestions available to your congregation. I am very happy for you to copy and paste ideas from here into your own Order of Service or for you to supply a link to this page. An acknowledgment though is always appreciated.

LET’S BEGIN:

LISTEN Good Friday The End on Liturgical Folks Album, Lent

For general craft ideas for Good Friday try these ideas from Sun Hats and Wellie Boots

THE LORD’S PRAYER:

You might like to start with the Lord’s Prayer if at home, or say the Lord’s Prayer within a set place if following along in a service.

A more contemplative version https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NuUo-igXDU&fbclid=IwAR2FasYCU-9mP1PaLQDjweXyhyUnJutt4J28KycjzeUEttWSesipX2jmJxE

Or for a more Intergenerational approach try Number 1 on the Table Settings album by Liturgical Folks

ACKNOWLEDGMENT OF COUNTRY

If you are in Australia and attending a Uniting Church in Australia, in many cases an Acknowledgment of Country will be said. You can teach your young ones to do this too.

FIRST READING: Isaiah 52:13-53:12

READ: The Velvetten Bunny by Margery Williams

WATCH

I chose this book as I saw some parallels between the Isaiah reading and the Velveteen Bunny who, learns what he has to do to become human and that it is not easy or pretty. in the same way the suffering servant’s life is not easy or appreciated the true value of it is not seen or appreciated by everyone.

PLAY: Roll out a play mat, or get a lego city project and look at how many people, going around their ordinary lives are doing wonderful things for others, ie the street cleaner, the nurse. How many can you think off.

PRAY

You are faithful God

Help me to listen to you

Amen

PSALM 22

Psalm 22: Don’t leave me!

My God, my God, how could you leave me? (clench your fists)
Just when I needed you most, you are gone! (point your finger from one of the clenched fists)
I am eaten up by pain, (wrap you arms around your body)
my life is pouring down the drain (hang your head)
Around and around rage the forces of hate. (look all around you)
Is this the end? Is this my fate? (point your hands palm upwards)

A shortened version of Rev Purdie’s Psalm 22 Don’t leave me. Actions in Italics by me

DRAW: how this Psalm makes you feel?

How does the second part of the Psalm make yoSECOND READING: Hebre

SECOND READINGS: HEBREWS 10:16-25

READ I will Love You Anyway by Mick Inpen

WATCH https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eBTrEDQWPc

A beautiful story of being loved and forgiven. Just like today’s reading

SING: Seeds Family Worship, He is Faithful

PRAY (get a piece of tissue paper or a sponge, cut out a heart shape and drop food dye onto it as you pray)

OR Hebrews 4:14-16 and 5:7-9

READ: Kitten for a Day by Ezra Jake Keats

WATCH

See Why it was suggested

SING Jesus You are my Hope by Soverign Grace Kids” album To be Like Jesus

PRAY

Jesus was a boy,

He played and grew

and knows

what it is like to be

a child like me

(tell God something about yourself)

Amen

GOSPEL READING: John 18:1-19:42

READ: The Way of the Cross by Andrew McDonough

WATCH

SING He died upon a Cross by Colin Buchanan on his album Practice Being Godly

Colouring -IN free colouring in page or you can purchase an activity book ($Aus 4.95) with so many things to do it will keep everyone occupied.

Blessings

Wendy L.

Please check local guidlines before using items that are not mine especially if you are using this page for congregational use. Please acknowedge this page if you find it useful. Thank you.

I am writing this on Wurundjeri land and wish to pay respect to all Elders, past, present and emerging.

I have qualifications in Education, Theology and Children’s Spirituality, and have worked as a Children and Families Worker in a city church. I use simple and easily found ideas to help you share the Revised Common Lectionary (RCL) readings. This is a ONE STOP SHOP where I have done the sifting for you to find theologically and developmentally appropriate material for your congregation or family, saving you time from sifting through many websites, facebook , pinterest, instagram, and blog posts.

Good Friday Year B, ideas to engage the whole family(especially the youngest) in the set RCL readings for today.

WELCOME

WHO ARE THESE IDEAS FOR?

You have found a page that uses easily found ideas to help you share the Revised Common Lectionary (RCL) readings with children. Instead of sifting through many websites, facebook , pinterest, instagram, and blog posts; this is a one stop shop where I have done the sifting for you to find theologically and developmentally appropriate material for your congregation or family.

These ideas can be used in a church setting as you parent in the pews or in your own home while connecting to a broadcast service or for your daily family devotions.

They are for use by parents, grandparents and carers and for small congregations who do not have a Child and Family Ministry.

GETTING READY

If worshipping at home. You may want to set up a space that stays up permanently or that you bring out for worship.

Set up a candle, a cross, and place on a black or red tablecoth or shawl.

If able to worship in the Chruch buildings pack a special backpack, as well as filling it with your Covid Safe equipment, add the books or materials required to help your young ones relate to readings.

For adults and older students you might like to take a journal with which to record anything that grabs your attention during the service. Write a precis of the message (traditional or sensory word), draw or write a response in and keep a record of emotions.

LET’S BEGIN

You might like to start with the Lords prayer if at home, or either of these suggestions can be used when the Lord’s Prayer is said within a set service.

Today I recommend this contemplative version https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NuUo-igXDU&fbclid=IwAR2FasYCU-9mP1PaLQDjweXyhyUnJutt4J28KycjzeUEttWSesipX2jmJxE

During Prayers of the People, Try some meditative prayer. Don’t ask them to sit in silence for very long, (we don’t want them to feel as if they have failed, how long depends on your child and their age – 5 secs can be too long for some) Ask them to sit comfortably, close their eyes, place their hands in their lap and take a few deep breaths, so deep that theri belly rises. End with amen.

FIRST READING: Isaiah 52:13-53:12

READ: The Velvetten Bunny by Margery Williams

WATCH

I chose this book as I saw some parallels between the Isaiah reading and the Velveteen Bunny who, learns what he has to do to become human and that it is not easy or pretty. in the same way the suffering servant’s life is not easy or appreciated the true value of it is not seen or appreciated by everyone.

OR read the Story Book Bible from A dark night in the garden, p.294 – 306.

Make a cross out of cardboard, draw on the cross all the painful things Jesus experienced on his way to the cross.

PSALM 22

READ: For the Very Young Psalms of Praise by Danielle Hitchen, STAND

OR

Psalm 22: Don’t leave me!

My God, my God, how could you leave me?
(hang your head)
Just when I needed you most, you are gone! (look sad)
I am eaten up by pain,(hug your body)
my life is pouring down the drain (slup to the floor)
Around and around rage the forces of hate. (look around you)
Is this the end? Is this my fate? (put a questioning look on your face OR hold your hands out and palm up)

(You might like to stop it there today and then finish it on Sunday)


The answer bursts open the grave –
Christ, who died, is alive!
Tell the world, for all time –
death is defeated, Christ is alive!

Words by Rev Purdie, actions by me

Describe those feelings in this Psalm. Show how these feelings look like in your body or draw it, or point out what it feels like from a set of emotional cards https://innovativeresources.org/resources/card-sets/bears-cards/ or the Bears App https://innovativeresources.org/resources/digital-applications/bears-app/

How does the second part of the Psalm make you feel?

SECOND READING: Hebrews 10:16-25

READ OR from a Children’s Bible such as Beginner’s Bible

OR READ Everybody brings nooddles by Norah Dooley

WATCH

see why

SING: Seeds Family Worship, He is Faithful

OR Make me faithful by Soverign Grace Kids album To be Like Jesus

PRAY

Jesus

I want to be like you

Help me to absorb your deeds

So that they are a part of me too

Amen

OR Hebrews 4:14-16, 5:7-9

READ: Kitten for a Day by Ezra Jake Keats

WATCH

See Why it was suggested

SING Jesus You are my Hope by Soverign Grace Kids” album To be Like Jesus

PRAY:

You lived amongst us Jesus

Even though you are God’s Son

Everything I feel

You understand

too

Amen

GOSPEL READING: John 18:1-19:42

READ: Peter and The Rooster by Andrew McDonough

WATCH

SING He died upon a Cross by Colin Buchanan on his album Practice Being Godly

MAKE:A Rooster hand print You will find how to make one in this video explaining Easter using hand prints, find it at the 1.35 minute mark to 2.05 minutes. (note the 3 fingers like the 3 crosses)

Blessings

Wendy L.

Please check local guidlines before using items that are not mine and acknowledge this page if you have found it useful, especially if you are using this page for congregational use.

Good Friday Year C: Ideas to help you share the RCL readings with the 3’s and under.

If you are a parent or Guardian

Prepare a special church bag in advance each week so that you are ready for the rush on Sunday Morning.

Sit towards the front so they can see what is going on.

Read during the Bible readings,

Pray during the prayers,

Colour, Draw or Craft during the sermon.

Craft or drawing or play are for spiritual responses not for a perfectionist piece that can be shown off.

Remember that little ones will need their own space to move and wiggle,

You have bought your child to worship. Enjoy engaging them in it.

If you are a small congregation without a Child and Family Minister have an area available near the front for parents/guardians to worship with their children, and print off this information so that it is readily available or direct them to this site. Set up an area with books and toys in it that will enhance their spiritual experience. (Ie not just toys for “keeping them quiet”).Spiritual Delights or Toy Box tat! andMake the books appealing

If you would like these ideas as a PDF file sent to you each week, please contact me.

FIRST READING: Isaiah 52:13-53:12

READ/WATCH: Horton Hears a Who By Dr Suess https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OfBw0vMCkyE this is a very long read for a small person, so dip in and outlet them come and go. I chose it as it is a wonderful story of faith and putting yourself out for something you believe in.

PRAY: Many people help me God,

Help me to Help others too.

PLAY: if you have a play mat, https://www.ikea.com/au/en/catalog/categories/departments/childrens_ikea/tools/coch/roomset/20182_coch03a/ find all the people that you could help.

PSALM 22

Psalm 22: Don’t leave me!

My God, my God, how could you leave me? (clench your fists)
Just when I needed you most, you are gone! (point your finger from one of the clenched fists)
I am eaten up by pain, (wrap you arms around your body)
my life is pouring down the drain (hang your head)
Around and around rage the forces of hate. (look all around you)
Is this the end? Is this my fate? (point your hands palm upwards)
The answer bursts open the grave – (look of surprise)
Christ, who died, is alive! (open your mouth wide)
Tell the world, for all time – (clasp your hands around your mouth like a megaphone)
death is defeated, Christ is alive! (hold your hands open wide in the air)

words by http://www.conversations.net.nz/psalm-22-the-crucifixion-psalm.html, actions by me.

IF your congregation ends Good Friday with acknowledgment of the resurrection, do not read the last 4 rows today)

COLOURING IN: https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/collections/lent/products/psalms-coloring-posters?variant=5702410895392  You may have bought this series last year so check your download folder.

SECOND READING: Hebrews 10:16-25

SING: https://www.seedsfamilyworship.com/product/trust-vol-11-releases-april-10-2018/# Number 10

READ: IN My Heart A Book of Feelings by Jo Witek. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIfLgHBwYx4 If you have a physical copy of the book, rather than reading it all today you could just pick out some relevant pages

DRAW: What colour would your heart be today? Draw a heart of that colour.

OR Hebrew 4:14-16, 5:7-9

READ/WATCH: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=np9EmM6W2M8 We Found a Hat By Jon Klassen

a suggestion by http://storypath.upsem.edu/lectionary-links-rcl-march-18-2018/

PRAY: Jesus prayed Lord

Help me to pray to you too

Help me to be still (practice being still)

and listen to you.

Amen

NEW TESTAMENT: John 18:1-19:43

READ/WATCH https://www.lostsheep.com.au/stories/the-way-of-the-cross/ The Way Of the Cross

ACTIVITIES: Down load the free bookmarks (very useful for retelling the story) and the Colouring in Sheet

OR Buy the activity pack at the end of the screen, which has many options for all ages.

OR READ: My First read a loud Bible by Batchelor and Boshoff Jesus is left to die pp.220-221

ACTIVITY: Draw a very colourful happy drawing, then place a black sheet over it, or colour over it with a black crayon, or non drip children’s paint.

Ask your child how they felt when they drew their happy picture?

Then how it felt when it was covered over?

Explain that Jesus’s disciples must have been as confused or sad as you are when your happy picture was taken away

COLOURING-IN: https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/collections/coloring-sheets-posters/products/bible-story-coloring-pages-spring-2019 PURCHASE IS DOWNLOADABLE  AND IS IN AMERICAN DOLLARS FOR 14 WEEKS (7 WEEKS IN)

For more ideas see https://wordpress.com/post/thecrossinmybackyard.wordpress.com/128 As last years readings are the same as this year.

Blessings

Wendy L.

Good Friday: Suggestions for helping 3’s and under connect with the RCL readings

With such a short week, and preparations for the long weekend, or the start of the school holiday’s for Victoria and Queensland, prepare in advance, so you just have to pick up the bag and go.

You might need

Black paper

Black pencil, texta or crayon.

Journal or bank pages for drawing

Texta’s

May need to print

https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/collections/lenten-2018-resources/products/psalms-coloring-pages-8-5×11 (This series has 9 colouring in pages, including a simplified version for younger hands. They cover the Psalms in the RCL until Easter Sunday. I do suggest you purchase them, just remember the price is in $US so will be slightly higher and may attract an international transaction fee. You might like to share this product with other families or ask your congregation to purchase it for you.)

http://www.catholicicing.com/religious-easter-craft-for-kids-make/

https://www.lostsheep.com.au/stories/the-way-of-the-cross/ colouring in page

BOOKS

THE WAY OF THE CROSS BY Andrew McDonough

Please God by Stephanie Carmichael https://www.koorong.com/search/product/please-god-books-for-little-ones-series-stephanie/9781925424041.jhtml

Are you my mother? by PD Eastman

The Lion Story Book https://www.koorong.com/search/product/the-lion-story-bible-sophie-piper-ruth-rivers/9780745964003.jhtml

The Jesus Story Book Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones https://www.koorong.com/search/product/the-jesus-storybook-bible-sally-lloyd-jones-jago/0310708257.jhtml

OLD TESTAMENT: ISAIAH 52:13-53:12

DRAW: create a  Black on Black drawing.

You will need black paper and either a black pencil, crayon, or texta.

OR let them draw any part of this long reading that attracts them.

PSALM 22

READ: Books for Little Ones Please God by Stephanie Carmichael

OR Are you my mother? by PD Eastman https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98HB7J7V1bk

Every child knows that feeling of abandonment,  talk to them about how they feel the they are separated from you.

COLOURING-IN:

https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/collections/lenten-2018-resources/products/psalms-coloring-pages-8-5×11

PRAY: Dear God help me to remember you love me. Amen from Please God by Stephanie Carmichael

NEW TESTAMENT: HEBREWS 10:16-25

DRAW: a love heart

MAKE: a heart shape with your hands.

OR HEBREWS 4;14-16, 5:7-9

READ/WATCH

suggested from http://storypath.upsem.edu/lectionary-links-sunday-october-14-2012/

 

GOSPEL: JOHN: 18:1-19:43

READ/WATCH THE WAY OF THE CROSS BY Andrew McDonough

https://www.lostsheep.com.au/stories/the-way-of-the-cross/

COLOURING-IN https://www.lostsheep.com.au/stories/the-way-of-the-cross/

the free colouring in page at the bottom of the screen.

OR The Lion Story Book pp. 204-216

MAKE:

https://www.buildfaith.org/make-a-resurrection-set-hands-on-easter-learning/

http://www.catholicicing.com/religious-easter-craft-for-kids-make/

for Protestant use I would only use Mary in p.6 and delete p.7. or just use the empty cloth.

great way to express themselves in play. If the child is young, have this ready for them to just play with, print on thick paper so they can stand up by themselves and remember for hygiene reasons DO NOT use toilet rolls. If you really have time you can laminate for longer life.