Sunday Reflection: Wisdom

The obvious theme running through all 4 RCL (Revised Common Lectionary) readings this week is Wisdom.

From wise sayings(Proverbs 1:20-33 and James 3:1-12) through to being told where wisdom comes from( in Mark 8: 27-38 and the Psalm 19), there is a wide choice of material to exegite and think about.

Due to Feminist Theology the feminine expression of God, Sophia is more widely recognised and used by mainstream theologies. Thus the female voice of Proverbs 1 will have been identified and stressed from many pulpits today. Feminist Theology like Child Theology is an offshoot of Liberation Theology. Whereas with Child Theology we see the text through the child, feminist Theology opens our eyes to the feminine in the text, or to the lack of the feminine.

Now all of these texts, do not refer to children, but we can still find the child or in this case the ommission of the childs voice in the text.

Before we wonder about where that voice might be, or why it might be missing, I want to turn your attention to another issue. As long as I have been listening, I have heard exclusively of the moral message, especially in James 3:1-12, that creeps in whenever we have a Wisdom text. It is as if we can not exam God’s Word without our own agenda. How to be GOOD. As soon as we start moralising the text we make it a weapon upon which people can be divided as Good or Bad. By doing this we are left in a rather unfortunate situation when we look at Peter in the Mark reading. He is definately rebuked, that would possibly make him rejected and yet those of us who have read the Bible on numereous occassions would know that he became the foundation of the church. Children and those coming to the story for the first time, when approaching this passage as a moral teaching may feel that they are inadequate, less of a child of God, but Peter should reassure them not condem them that we all need to understand Jesus’s teachings more fully.

The fault is not in the passage but the way we approach a passage such as this.

If instead we appraoch this and the other wisdom sayings in today’s readings as starting points of discussion, we would all still be learning but we would be bringing ourselves, we would be being shown how to have a lifelong interation with the text, and we would have an awareness of the way that others may understand this passage diferently to ourselves.

We don’t need to make it a moral lesson for us to learn and grow in faith from these passages. That is not to say that we may make moral understanding from them but rather that we will hear a greater richness from them.

In one of Renata Weems book she outlines how she understands the Jews to use these readings as starting points of discussion. If we follow this understanding from Jesus’s expereience than it is not difficult to see that using that form of teaching rather than a stated outcome type of learning might help us to engage more richly in the text.

At present I am rereading Godly Play by Jerome Berryman, when I look at his method for experiencing Biblical texts and faith practices,I find a way of teaching that also allows us to enter the text in a richer way. It allows for the child to find their own understanding, God’s wisdom, from the text, without an agenda overlay (ie such as a moral lesson).

Anyone who has taught Godly Play, or really just taught children will know that moment when God’s Wisdom shines through the child, when they express or crystalise a thought that they have either been grappling with or just come to see. I love those moments, they are the ones that bring me great joy, becasue even if I don’t see something new, I see something of God in them, and it is amazing.

Before I finish I’d just like to share where I found the omited child’s voice in today’s readings? Psalm 19 reminds us to find wisdom in the world around us, and James reminds us all that we are children of God, there is nothing to quantify wisdom s being attached to the chronological ages but rather it is found in searching for God and is from God. Open to all.

Blessings

Wendy Lewis

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After Pentecost 16B: ideas to engage everyone(especially the youngest) in the set RCL readings for Sunday

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WHO ARE THESE IDEAS FOR?

For anyone looking for ideas to help share God’s word with everyone including the youngest.

Whether you are preparing traditional worship or an all age or Intergenerational service.

OR you are a parent wanting something for your children to use either in face to face or broadcast services, as you parent from the pews or couch

Or during family devotion times.

I use easily found ideas to help you share the Revised Common Lectionary (RCL) readings with children. Instead of sifting through many websites, facebook , pinterest, instagram, and blog posts; this is a one stop shop where I have done the sifting for you to find theologically and developmentally appropriate material for your congregation or family.

Though you will find simple ways into the text here THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THOUGH THAT YOU CAN DO IS SHARE YOURSELF AND YOUR FAITH. I firmly believe that it is in the relationship, that the Faith formation of the next generation truely starts. You will notice that there are very few prompts or questions on this page. This is to allow your child to do the thinking and to work out what is important to them from the texts. Sometimes they may give you an insight or even ask a question? There are no wrong insights or crazy questions, and you are enough, enough to listen, enough to work it out together, ENOUGH to share your love of GOD with your child.

Here is a great presentation on children’s spirituality, but most importantly from the 40 minute mark on, it speaks about the imporantance of teaching through story and explains the process I recommend you use with children.

SEASON: AFTER PENTECOST

We are still in the longest liturgical season, the season after Pentecost. This season takes up half or the year, and it’s liturgical colour is green. There are no major celebrations during this season, and some refer to it as Ordinary Time. For me it is a time to celebrate everyday joys, to see God in the ordinary, in the everyday, and to hear the everyday stories of Jesus.

GETTING READY

If worshipping at home. You may want to set up a space/alter/focal spot, to bring out when you worship or to keep out everyday.

You can do this by setting up a candle, and add the things that remind YOU of God, a cross, a word, a special object, even something from one of the readings.

If able to worship in the Church buildings pack a special backpack, as well as filling it with your Covid Safe equipment, add the books or materials required to help your young ones relate to today’s readings.

For adults and older students you might like to take a journal with which to record anything that grabs your attention during the service. Write a precis of the message (traditional or sensory word), draw or write a response in and keep a record of emotions. You could use a template like this free download

LET’S BEGIN

WELCOME:

SING https://www.snackmusic.com.au/songs/you-are-welcome

THE LORD’S PRAYER:

You might like to start with the Lord’s Prayer if at home, or say the Lord’s Prayer within a set place if following along in a service. Here are 4 options

2 with ACTIONS https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOugEQpcc_k OR https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMjm93ylL2w

A more contemplative version https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NuUo-igXDU&fbclid=IwAR2FasYCU-9mP1PaLQDjweXyhyUnJutt4J28KycjzeUEttWSesipX2jmJxE

Or for a more Intergenerational approach try Number 1 on the Table Settings album by Liturgical Folks

PRAYER OF THE PEOPLE:

Five Fingered Prayer

FIRST READING: Proverbs 1:20-33

READ Through your eyes:My Child’s gift to me by Ainsley Earhardt

WATCH

A storypath suggestion

SING Where it all Begins on Walking with the Wise by Sovereign Grace Kids

PRAY

Sophia ,

Wisdom,

Open my ears(point to your ears)

To hear you

Open my eyes (point to your eyes)

To see you

Open my pores (walk your fingers up your arms)

To feel you

Open my taste buds (stick out your tongue)

To taste you

Let me deeply breath(take a deep breath in, then slowly let it out)

To smell you

Amen

PSALM 19

READ

DRAW: Draw your favourite image from the Psalm.

Without actually SHOUTING: how might you “shout”/let people know, about God?

SECOND READING: James 3:1-12

READ: The Whirl Storybook Bible, pp.394-395 Taming the Tongue

DO: Put a drop of food colouring in a clear glass/cup of water. Throw a pebble in a lake or a pond or the sea or a bucket of water

Colouring-In

GOSPEL READING: Mark 8:27-38

READ: Meet James in Mark by Matthew Sleeman Mark 8:27-9.13 first 2 paragraphs

OR pp.30-35, 3 stories, Who do you think I am?, Rejected, killed and back to life?, How to save your life?

WATCH

PLAY out this story, dress up and play the parts, or make puppets out of paper or your toys?

SING One Thing by Snack Music

SENDING HYMN Tell the World by Hillsong Kids Learn the actions here

Blessings

Wendy L.

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Lent 3B: ideas to engage the whole family(especially the youngest) in the set RCL readings for today

WELCOME

These ideas can be used in a church setting as you parent in the pews or in your own home while connecting to a broadcast service or for your daily family devotions.

They are for use by parents, grandparents and carers and for small congregations who do not have a Child and Family Ministry.

You have found a page that uses easily found ideas to help you share the Revised Common Lectionary (RCL) readings with children. Instead of sifting through many websites, facebook , pinterest, instagram, and blog posts; this is a one stop shop where I have done the sifting for you to find theologically and developmentally appropriate material for your congregation or family.

If worshipping at home. You may want to set up a space to bring out or keep up through Lent.

The colour of Lent is purple, not the same blue based purple as Advent but a red based purple.

Set up a candle, and what ever helps you focus on the season, it might be a cross, some sand (to symbolise the desert times of the people of God), or cactus plants, some rocks(to represent challenge) for example. Today you might add some ashes, or black drawing materials and some white paper to encourage your family to respond to the readings.

A Book that I would rcommend for sharing about Lent with Children is Make Room A Child’s Guide to Lent and Easter by Laura Alary You can see an adaption of this book in a Godly Play method here

If able to worship in the Chruch buildings pack a special backpack, as well as filling it with your Covid Safe equipment, add the books or materials required to help your young ones relate to readings.

For adults and older students you might like to take a journal with which to record anything that grabs your attention during the service. Write a precis of the message (traditional or sensory word), draw or write a response in and keep a record of emotions.

You might like to start with the Lords prayer if at home, or either of these suggestions can be used when the Lord’s Prayer is said within a set service.

either IN ACTIONS https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOugEQpcc_k OR https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMjm93ylL2w

Or if you are looking for a more contemplative version https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NuUo-igXDU&fbclid=IwAR2FasYCU-9mP1PaLQDjweXyhyUnJutt4J28KycjzeUEttWSesipX2jmJxE

FIRST READING:EXODUS 20:1-17

READ: THE WHIRL Story Bible pp.70-73

and the SPARK Story Bible pp98-99

OR Children of God by Archbishop Desmond Tutu, The 10 Commandments pp.36-37

SING: Practise Being Godly by Colin Buchanan, there is a song for all 10 commandments

CRAFT

PSALM 19

READ:

SING: SEEDS Family Worship Scripture Music Lullaby: Acceptable

SECOND READING: 1 Corinthians 1:18-25

READ: The Hat by Jan Brett

WATCH:

read why this was suggested here

Questions: I wonder what foolish things you know of that have turned out to be good ideas?

PLAY: Play with things that give you a different perspective on things, ie magnifying glass, bug lenses, cellephane, standing on your head,

GOSPEL READING: John 2:13-22

WATCH

DRAW: draw this story. What emotions would you draw? Who would have those emotions?

PRAY:

Jesus,

you know what it is to be human

you have experienced every emotion

I can tell you anything I’m feeling

Amen

Blessings

Wendy L.

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AFTER PENTECOST 18 A: ideas to share this week’s rcl readings with even the youngest family members using things you have at home:

This is also a great resource for parents/careers and grandparents to use with their little ones during online or face to face worship, or to use as family devotions during the week.

If you are worshipping on line and are unsure what to do with the “little ears” worshipping with their parents, please feel free to make these suggestions during your service so the young ones too can participate.

If at home you might like to make a space for worship it can be permanent or bought out at times of sharing faith together. We are in the season of After Pentecost, the longest season, and it’s colour is green.

You might like to place a green tablecloth on the dinner table or coffee table, or a white one with green ribbons.

It need be no more complicated than that!

OR you could add a cross, or something that talks to you about faith, such as your Bible.

You can even add a candle (with young children around I like to use the battery operated kind.)

START WITH: THE LORDS PRAYER IN ACTIONS https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOugEQpcc_k OR https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMjm93ylL2w

Or slot it in when the congregation says The Lords Prayer, if you are in a face to face service, or zooming in from Home.

FIRST READING: EXODUS 20:1-4,7-9,12-20

WATCH: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hkjXX2xjTkg

SING: The album Practice Being Godly by Colin Buchanan https://colinbuchanan.com.au/products/practise-being-godly-cd-mp3-album contains songs on each of the commandments.

CRAFT: You can down load and colour this book, or you might like to make your own book of the 10 commandments, drawing a picture that means someting for you to explain each of the Laws.

PSALM 19

READ: http://www.conversations.net.nz/psalm-19-song-of-the-stars.html

COLOURING-IN: I have always recommended Illustrated Ministry’s work, though I prefer free stuff, I have found their work very reflective of how I find meaning in the passages, but more importantly I have noticed that chidlren of all ages love them and find meaning in them. Their FALL season has started and will give you a colouring in sheet each week until the end of November. It is $US19 for the quarter, and if you have kids that love colouring in it is money well spent COLOURING-IN https://store.illustratedministry.com/products/bible-story-coloring-pages-fall-2020?variant=31882216570978

LISTEN: https://www.seedsfamilyworship.com/product/when-you-lie-down-lullabies-scripture-songs/#

SECOND READING: PHILLIPIANS 3: 4b -14

READ/WATCH:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5TPUwrURo6M, THE LITTLE ENGINE THAT COULD BY Watty Piper as suggested by http://storypath.upsem.edu/lectionary-links-sunday-october-2-2011/ I so loved this book as a child, but when paired with this reading it helps me see how much committment is required when we put Christ first. I wonder if you can think of other Bible readings that might also apply to this story?

SING: https://sovereigngracemusic.org/music/songs/nothing-better-than-jesus/

DO: What do you like putting your all into? Spend time today doing whatever that is?

GOSPEL READING: MATTHEW 21:33-46

WATCH https://ministry-to-children.com/parable-of-the-tenants-sermon-for-kids/

PLAY:

Using building blocks, build a tower and invite children to build a tower with you.

Ask the children, what is the most important block in this tower?

After you have received responses, pull out the bottom block of the tower and watch the tower fall down.

Share with the children that the bottom block is the most important block as all the other blocks rest on it. When it is taken out, all the blocks fall down.

Jesus is a bit like that first block. If we build our lives on Jesus – listen to the stories about him, try to live as he taught us by being kind to one another, then our lives will be strong and good.

Taken from the free download from L3 Lay Preacher’s Liturgy to promote a new downloadable resource by MediaCom, out by the end of the Liturgical year. https://www.mediacomeducation.org.au

PRAY:

Make fists with your hands, now place one fist on top of the other and pretend to build a tower with them placing one fist above the other throughout this prayer

Help me build my life on your Jesus

Help me build a life

that won’t

fall down (fall to the floor)

That is strong because I’m yours (stand up tall)

Amen (clap)

Blessings

Wendy L

Epiphany 3: Ideas to help you and your 3’s and under enjoy church and relate to the RCL readings.

Sorry everyone for both the lateness and change of form as I had a fall and concussion. So am on a technology light diet while I heal.

Hope this is still useful.

Prepare a special church bag in advance each week so that you are ready for the rush on Sunday Morning.

Sit towards the front so they can see what is going on.

Read during the Bible readings,

Pray during the prayers,

Colour, Draw or Craft during the sermon.

Craft or drawing or play are for spiritual responses not for a perfectionist piece that can be shown off.

Remember that little ones will need their own space to move and wiggle,

Remember that you have bought your child to worship. Enjoy engaging them in it.

Older children might enjoy https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/products/illustrated-worship-resources-winter-2018-2019

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After Pentecost 17B: Ideas to share the RCL readings with the 3’s and under.

These are suggestions only to help parents/caregivers engage their children in services that use the Revised Common Lectionary. They can be used by parents/caregivers or those who help out in small congregations that can not afford to pay Child and Families Ministry. Some congregations use all 4 readings in their services others only two. Prepare a special church bag in advance each week so that you are ready for the rush on Sunday Morning.

Read during the Bible readings,

Pray during the prayers,

Colour, Draw or Craft during the sermon.

Remember that little ones will need their own space to move and wiggle,

Sit towards the front so they can see what is going on. Craft or drawing or play are for spiritual responses not for a perfectionist piece that can be shown off.

Remember you have bought your child to worship. Enjoy engaging them in it.

You might need to prepare these in advance, and place them in a special Church Bag ready to go for Sunday Morning.

https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/products/bible-story-coloring-pages-fall-2018 THIS IS A NEW SEASON, AMERICAN FALL OUR Spring . For $10 American dollars (about $Aus 16) you have 12 weeks of colouring sheets. Or you can combine with other parents or ask the Church to make the purchase for yourself and the families.

Download https://www.max7.org/en/resource/tengreatstories

Communal toys such as dolls house, cars, trains or farm sets

Sticky stars

Paper plate,

texta’s

red or pink ribbon or felt

things to make choices with such as spoon, fork, 2 coloured hair, tis, 2 toys, 2 cars etc

 

OLD TESTAMENT: Proverbs 1:20-33

WATCH/READ: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2OtPJfhscys THROUGH YOUR EYES: MY CHILD’S GIFT TO ME by Ainsley Earhardt

as suggested http://storypath.upsem.edu/lectionary-links-rcl-september-16-2018/

DO: Catch God Words,  Ask your child to listen for a word or two depending on how old they are. For example “tell me when you hear GOD or Jesus, or Love” if they don’t remember just give them a gentle reminder. You might like to put a star sticker on the pew sheet each time a word is said. Don’t get competitive about this game.

PLAY: with communal toys such as a dolls house or cars or trains

 

PSALM 19:

LISTEN: https://www.seedsfamilyworship.com/product/when-you-lie-down-lullabies-scripture-songs/# no. 10 Acceptable

COLOURING -IN: https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/products/bible-story-coloring-pages-fall-2018

OR if you bought the Lent series https://www.illustratedchildrensministry.com/psalms/

 

SECOND READING: James 2:1-9

WATCH/READ: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=42o8JuaEAZc Willow by Denise Brennan-Nelson 

as suggested by http://storypath.upsem.edu/lecctionary-links-sunday-september-13-2015/

FIND: Little things can make a big difference, what can you find in your church that is small but makes difference. Can you draw them?

MAKE: make a face, use a paper plate, draw eyes, nose, ears hair, etc, then glue a piece of  red or pink felt or ribbon to make a tongue, a tongue that can say little or a lot, nice or nasty things.

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GOSPEL: Mark 8:27-38

READ: https://www.max7.org/en/resource/tengreatstoriesfrommark pp30-31 this may be available in other languages.

PLAY: a choice game, put two things out and get your child to chose only one. eg, spoon or fork, bible or hymn book, two different coloured hair clips, the rings on your finger, between two cars, etc.

PRAY:

I can choose you God (point your finger away from yourself)

You gave me a choice (point your finger upward)

Help me to make the right choice (point your finger at ourself)

Amen

Blessings

Wendy L

PS if you make any faces send pictures of them for us to be inspired by them.

 

Lent 3: ideas to help share this Sunday’s RCL readings with the 3’s and under.

These suggestions are for use with the 3’s and under who are in worship with you. Or use them during the week to keep connecting with Sunday’s worship.

You may need to organise some resources before Sunday and place in a special Church Bag so you can pick it up and run and have everything with you to share worship with your little one.

BOOKS

The Lion Picture Bible https://www.koorong.com/search/product/the-lion-story-bible-sophie-piper-ruth-rivers/9780745964003.jhtml

The Lion Story Bible https://www.koorong.com/search/product/the-lion-story-bible-sophie-piper-ruth-rivers/9780745964003.jhtml

My First Read-aloud Bible Batchelor and Boshoff  https://www.koorong.com/search/product/my-first-read-aloud-bible-mary-batchelor/9781860247712.jhtml

The Jesus Story Book Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones and Jago https://www.koorong.com/search/product/the-jesus-storybook-bible-sally-lloyd-jones-jago/0310708257.jhtml can also be purchased on Kindle

DOWNLOAD

http://www.mediacomeshop.org.au/test/index.php?route=product/product&path=90_91&product_id=254

https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/collections/illustrated-worship-resources/products/bible-story-coloring-pages-spring-2018 (The price you pay will get you 14 colouring in pages, that is 14 Sundays worth and I will possibly refer to them over the coming weeks. To reduce the cost further, you could share with other families or ask your church to purchase them for you. Note this is a USA publication so the season  for them is Spring, and the price is in US$, so it will cost a little more and possible attract international transaction charges depending on whom your credit card is with)

https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/collections/lenten-2018-resources/products/psalms-coloring-pages-8-5×11 (This series has 9 colouring in pages, including a simplified version for younger hands. They cover the Psalms in the RCL until Easter Sunday. I do suggest you purchase them, just remember the price is in $US so will be slightly higher and may attract an international transaction fee. You might like to share this product with other families or ask your congregation to purchase it for you.)

ALSO

Games, such as Go fish or checkers if they are age appropriate

Plain paper or Journal

Texta’s

PREPARE: You could make heart commandment puzzle jigsaw like the one shown in the Godly Play video below. You don’t need the heart shaped box, BUT STICK TO THE HEART SHAPE and you can make out of cardboard or yardstick, and let your child decorate the heart jigsaws.

OLD TESTAMENT: EXODUS 20:1-17

READ: The Lion Story Bible pp. 54-55

OR The Lion Picture Bible pp.86-87

OR My First Read A-loud Bible by Batchelor and Boshoff pp.54-55

OR The Jesus storybook Bible p.105-106

PLAY: As this passage speaks about rules within community, Play games, these have rules, it could be peek a boo, the drop the toy/ and you will pick it up game, mix and match, Go Fish, or whatever game your child loves to play, and is age appropriate.

WATCH: This is a favourite but is still too advanced for many toddlers, yet I have watched the under threes walk in and out of Godly Play stories and still show what they understood. So give it a go. START at the 5 MIN. 33 sec mark.

 

MAKE/PLAY: This requires a bit of preparation. You could make heart commandment puzzle jigsaw like the one shown in the Godly Play video. You don’t need the heart shaped box, BUT STICK TO THE HEART SHAPE and you can make out of cardboard or yardstick, and let your child decorate the heart jigsaws.

PSALM 19

COLOURING IN: https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/collections/lenten-2018-resources/products/psalms-coloring-pages-8-5×11

OR http://www.mediacomeshop.org.au/test/index.php?route=product/product&path=90_91&product_id=254

DRAW:  a face expressing the emotion of parts of or each verse. Eg: Excited or Joyful

NEW TESTAMENT: 1 Corinthians 1: 18-25

WATCH/READ: Suggestion by http://storypath.upsem.edu/lectionary-links-rcl-march-4-2018/

DRAW: A treasure map. Draw your treasure?

PRAY: Dear God,

Help me to be wise

and search (put your hand above your eyes and move your head from one side to the other as if searching for something)

for you (palms out open your hands away from the body)

Amen

GOSPEL: John 2:13-22

READ: The Lion Story Bible p. 202

OR The Lion Picture Bible pp.319-320

OR My First Read Aloud Bible by Batchelor and Boshoff p. 210-211

COLOURING-IN: https://store.illustratedchildrensministry.com/collections/illustrated-worship-resources/products/bible-story-coloring-pages-spring-2018

DRAW: What would you protect. What is important to you.

PRAY: Thank you God

That you think

I am worth protecting

Amen